Tell Me, Who Should I be?

Please, tell me who I should be. I don't seem to fit in the 9-5 office work which I did for 2 years, not because I'm lazy but because I truthfully feel that no person should be in that environment --that's just my opinion.
I have  tried the (no fucks given getting fucked up whenever I can) stage..that ended quickly. It's fun once in a while but to live like that takes a toll on a persons body and character.  I don't believe my mission in life is to get to a specific age and find myself at house parties with girls who are young enough to be my daughter...If I had one.
Or, should I be the ideal family man? I do hope to have children one day, but the whole house with picket fence, big screen T.V, wife at home dinner ready, 2 week vacation a year idea, I don't really find appealing.
People may criticize but that's  just the way my mind is set, I don't mean to offend.
Maybe it's because I'm a single man. If I find that special girl maybe I'll toss all my aspirations and views out the window, knowing that at least one person (besides my family) loves me. I hope that's not the case.
In the end I find myself in the category of "Dreamer", it's difficult to identify what exactly that is. All I know is that I'm not built for this mainstream style of living.
I'm completely open to suggestions.....if you know who I should be.